There are few comments that land as sharply or as invisibly as these. They can sound friendly. They can sound relatable. They can sound harmless. But for neurodivergent people, they often feel like erasure. They flatten lived experience. They minimise struggle. They turn a lifelong neurotype into a quirky personality trait. And they place the responsibility back on the neurodivergent person to “not make a fuss.” Why “We’re All a Little Bit ADHD/Autistic” Can Hurt For neurodiv