Let’s face it, parenting/caregiving, doesn’t come with an instruction manual. Trust me, my husband even asked for one on the way out of the hospital twenty years ago. The nurse gave him a look that said, “I’ve heard this too many times!” Now, my child is a grown man. Looking back, I realise how much of parenting/caregiving is about showing up, not perfectly, not with all the answers, but with presence. I found it hard, I wasn't modelled it, and I know how much I would have be