Making sense of disappointment, letting go of expectations and finding a way forward when life looks different from the one we imagined. Most of us carry some idea of how we thought our lives would turn out. Perhaps we imagined a particular kind of relationship, a family, a career we loved, financial security, a home of our own or a sense of happiness that would come with getting older. Maybe we thought we would feel more settled by now, have worked out who we are, or reached