The Exhausting Business of Trying to Fix, Save, Heal and Improve People We Love If you've ever been in a relationship, friendship, or family dynamic where you've found yourself thinking: "If they could just see what I see..." "If they would just get help..." "If they could understand how their behaviour affects others..." "If they would only change this one thing..." You're not alone. In fact, many of us spend years trying to change other people. We do it because we care. We